35 years
I turned 35 last Saturday. On that morning, I awoke and had the longest run I have had in over 10 years. It felt great. Mind you, it wasn’t necessarily a long run; it’s just that I have had knee trouble for the better part of 14 years that has totally kept me from being able to run, which was once a favorite activity of mine. I also still have a 32″ waist, which has been a maintenance goal of mine since college. I am not big on birthdays, as my wife will tell you, but something about those decade and half-decade intervals cause me to reflect more than usual. Apparently my reflection only went as far as checking my waist size and still being able to exercise; how introspective of me.
Writing about something as banal as turning 35 was the only way I felt I could break the inertia of not having blogged in so long. My sincerest apologies to those who patiently kept asking about when I’d start writing again; forming my corporation, starting with an interesting and challenging client, and the birth of my first child two weeks later have absorbed most all of my spare energy and time of late. It is flattering that people read this at all, much less care enough to ask me for updates. I have three drafts in the queue, and all were technical topics that I have not made time to complete to my satisfaction.
My family is doing quite well; Caslin is healthy and Laura has risen to the challenge of motherhood in most impressive ways. I thought I was crazy about kids before, but having Caslin has exponentially intensified that. Watching Born Into Brothels tonight had me with tearful eyes before it even got to the really sad parts, just because I knew something would probably happen to those precious kids. Speaking of my baby, here’s an obligatory snapshot, though not all that recent:

For the astute observers, yes, I did cut my hair off. And yes, I do regret it to some degree. I blame it primarily on a couple of days of playing Splinter Cell via my GameTap subscription and some really bad pictures from the first few days after Caslin’s birth. I may grow it back. I wish I had a ponytail for Debconf6, but that’s life.
Work lately has been more about managing development than getting to actually develop software, which has been tough for me. Even though I have historically ended up as the Technical Lead on any project in which I have been involved, there has always been a fair amount of hands-on activity that granted me a certain level of gratification. Managing a shared services development group with three very active businesses for customers has left little to no time for active development involvement.
Bruce Eckel’s Programming The New Web conference is being hosted within a few miles of by brother’s and father’s houses in Colorado, so I have signed up for the conference. I have never been to an Open Spaces conference, so I’m really looking forward to it. It will be one of those step-back-and-think sort of gatherings, and no doubt the group will be a motivated set of individuals. Plus, it’ll be great to finally get to see where my brother lives now. I hear Crested Butte is a really wonderful town.
My Debian work has definitely suffered, which really bugs me. I was just getting some momentum with my New Maintainer process when this all happened. Fortunately, my Application Manager is very familiar with how life’s responsibilities can put these pursuits on hold.
Good thing is I think you look hot with long hair or short. Splinter Cell or renegade programmer — makes no difference to me.
Comment by The Wife — March 10, 2006 @ 9:36 am
PS . . . re: Born Into Brothels . . . I think we’ll be giving more money to the International Justice Mission www.ijm.org this year. If we could just help one more of those girls escape her mother’s fate . . . . Gut wrenching.
Comment by The Wife — March 10, 2006 @ 10:10 am
Glad you’re updating again!
You’ve got to get us some back updates - sounds like you’ve been generating so much interesting material you haven’t had time to write it! Don’t lose it!
Comment by Tom K. — March 11, 2006 @ 5:55 pm
Good thing you look hot…er, wait.
Welcome back and congrats again on the ol’ parenting thing. WE are bracing for numero dos in June if you didn’t know…see you around morning services soon!
the man from c.r.a.n.k
Comment by crank — March 16, 2006 @ 1:27 pm
crank, congrats on your second! we are holding out on the move to morning services, but it looks like a challenge ;-)
Comment by Barry Hawkins — April 3, 2006 @ 10:10 am